Ever run your hands through your hair five minutes before you walk out the door and suddenly realize your “bedhead” actually looks better than the slicked-back version you spent 20 minutes on? If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Mens messy hairstyles are the go-to for guys who want a relaxed, modern look that reads confident without trying too hard.
Why mens messy hairstyles work (and why you should try one)
Messy hairstyles give you texture, volume, and a natural finish that pairs with almost any outfit — from jeans and a tee to a blazer and chinos. The beauty of the tousled or textured look is that it’s forgiving: it hides uneven growth, looks great with different hair types, and adds personality. Whether you want a casual tousled look, a rugged textured crop, or a longer bedhead style, there’s a messy haircut for you.
Choose the right messy hairstyle for your hair type
Short messy hairstyles
Short messy hairstyles (also called textured crops or messy crops) are low-maintenance and perfect for men who want a clean yet relaxed silhouette. Ask your barber for textured layers on top with shorter sides. Use a matte clay or paste to create separation and hold.
Medium length messy hairstyles
Medium length hair gives you more movement and the classic “undone” look. Works great with natural waves. A sea salt spray and a blow-dry (scrunching with your fingers) deliver that effortless beachy texture.
Long messy hairstyles
Longer messy styles read effortless and artistic. Layers are essential to prevent a heavy, flat shape. Use a light cream or fiber to keep strands separated without weighing them down. Consider a loose man bun or half-up messy knot for variety.
Curly and wavy messy hairstyles
Natural curl is an advantage here. Embrace the texture rather than fighting it. Use curl-friendly creams and a diffuser on low heat to enhance natural pattern and reduce frizz. Regular trims keep shape while maintaining that lived-in look.
How to style mens messy hairstyles: step-by-step
Below is a simple, repeatable routine that works for most hair lengths and types.
- Wash and towel-dry: Use a lightweight shampoo and conditioner. Towel-dry until hair is damp, not dripping.
- Prep with product: For thin hair, use volumizing mousse. For medium to thick hair, a sea salt spray or texturizing spray adds grip. Apply evenly from roots to ends.
- Blow-dry with texture: Use a blow-dryer on medium heat. Scrunch with hands or use a diffuser for curls. Aim for natural movement, not flatness.
- Finish with styling product: Use a small amount of matte clay, paste, or fiber. Warm it in your hands, then work through the hair, focusing on the top and front. Use fingers to sculpt.
- Optional: set with hairspray: A light mist will hold the look without stiffness.
Best products for messy hair (what to use and why)
- Sea salt spray — adds texture and a lived-in feel for medium/long hair.
- Matte clay or putty — provides grip and a natural, non-shiny finish for short to medium styles.
- Lightweight pomade — useful for more controlled messy looks with a little shine.
- Texturizing powder — instant lift at the roots for fine hair.
- Leave-in conditioner or curl cream — for curly or frizzy hair to maintain definition.
For more on product picks and styling tools, see our internal grooming guide: Best products for hair.
Outfit pairings that complement messy hairstyles
Messy hair is versatile — here are outfit combos that make the style feel intentional.
- Casual day: White tee, slim denim, and a leather jacket. The messy hair adds an effortless edge to a classic look.
- Smart casual: Lightweight knit, chinos, and suede Chelsea boots. Tousled hair softens structured pieces for a relaxed sophistication.
- Office ready: Tailored blazer, plain shirt, and dark jeans. Keep the hair neat at the sides and textured on top for a modern professional vibe.
- Date night: Patterned button-up, slim trousers, and minimal sneakers. Messy texture conveys relaxed confidence.
Maintenance: how often to cut and how to keep it looking fresh
Schedule a trim every 4–8 weeks depending on how fast your hair grows and the look you maintain. Regular trims prevent split ends and maintain the shape of layered cuts. Avoid washing hair daily if you use texturizing products — 2–3 times a week helps preserve natural oils and keeps the style workable.
Night routine tip: Sleep on a cotton pillowcase or use a loose silk scarf to reduce morning frizz and preserve the messy shape.
Styling mistakes to avoid
- Using too much product — builds weight and removes the airy feel.
- Over-washing — strips natural oils and makes hair limp.
- Over-brushing — destroys natural texture; use fingers for finishing touches.
- Copying a look without adjusting for face shape — consult your barber on length and layers.
How to ask your barber for a messy cut
Bring photos and describe the key elements: textured top, tapered or faded sides, and length you’re comfortable with. Ask for point-cutting or razor work to create natural, choppy layers. It’s okay to say “I want an undone, textured look that grows out well.” For detailed guidance, check our haircut guide.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How do I make thin hair look messy and full?
A: Use volumizing products like mousse at the roots and a texturizing powder for lift. Blow-dry while lifting the hair with your fingers and finish with a lightweight matte paste for separation. Avoid heavy waxes that flatten the hair.
Q: Can curly hair pull off mens messy hairstyles?
A: Absolutely. Curly hair naturally creates texture and volume. Use curl cream or a light gel and a diffuser to enhance the pattern. Regular trims keep curls from becoming too heavy and losing shape.
Q: How long does it take to style a messy look every morning?
A: With practice, 3–7 minutes. Short styles are quickest: apply product and shape with fingers. Medium and long styles may take a bit longer if you blow-dry or diffuse, but the goal is a fast, repeatable routine.
Wrap-up: Try mens messy hairstyles and make them your own
Mens messy hairstyles are versatile, low-effort, and stylish — perfect for the modern guy who values personality over perfection. Whether you’re aiming for a textured crop, relaxed medium-length waves, or loose, long layers, the key is texture, the right products, and a haircut that complements your face shape. Experiment with product amounts, tools, and outfit pairings to find a signature look that feels organic to you.
Ready to upgrade your hair game? Try one of these styles this week, book a consult with your barber, and share your before-and-after in the comments. For more styling tips and product recommendations, see our grooming resources: Grooming routine.
